The Day I met my wife: There she was – sitting in the far corner booth being the center of attention for more than one of the guys at the table.
Allow me to set the scene; After church services, there were so many bible college students that headed for half price appetizers at Applebee’s that we would often ask for the smoking section knowing that we would fill it up and leave no room for smokers in the restraunt. And even then, the people not from our church or college were often approached with the gospel at some point in the evening. Even with the college’s “don’t go out to eat unless you have enough money to tip well” policy, I’m sure the local staff hated Wednesday and Sunday nights; we didn’t drink, we only ordered off the half price menu, and we stayed until 15 minutes before curfew and start demanding the check get there in a hurry so we wouldn’t be late. A 20% tip on a $6 meal won’t put your kids through college.
I was only 18, a freshman in Bible College, over 500 miles away from home, trying to fit in this new world of mine. To be honest, I’m not even sure I knew who I was exactly; so in a way I was meeting myself as much as I was meeting anyone else. I was rather unpopular in high school, even though I played football and Track and Field, and was in the top 25% of my class scholatically. But here, I had a clean slate. No one knew me from high school here and it was a chance to invent myself as anything I wanted to be. I chose a funny all the time, overbearing occasionally, always social, usually outgoing, obnoxious at times, and spiritual deep at times personality.
Back to the scene, I happen to be one of the guys making Stephanie the center of my attention. I couldn’t tell you who else was at the table other than ‘the competition’ – two guys both spending quite a bit of their time with Stephanie. One of the two guys was obviously making her feel uncomfortable. The other guy was looking more and more like the hero saving her from the first guy. I was on the side lines; I felt she was out of my league. A conversation with the hero made me believe they had been dating for a while anyway – which wasn’t true, but I didn’t know any better. Over the next year, she dated the hero (who turned out to be a zero – forgive the cliche’). We did become great friends, spending a lot of time at a momument between the boys and girls dorms. It would be another two years before we were married – but well worth the wait!
Look for these Moments in future posts for the series:
- The Day I got married
- The Day my Mother Died
- The Day my Father-in-Law Died
- The Day I interviewed with American Express